If You Could See
While reading one of Dr. Bernie Siegal's books, I ran across
an interesting question. Blind Helen Keller once asked her blind
friends, "If you could see for just 24 hours, what would you
choose?"
I pondered that question for days, then decided to try to
write it on paper, and asked some friends and a couple of
patients of mine who were interested, to try it with me. I
learned an enormous amount about myself, as did those working on
their own list.
I divided my paper into two columns. The first, at what I
would choose to look. The second, the number of minutes I would
spend looking at each thing. Remember, only 24 hours to look.
Oh, my list grew very large rapidly, trying to imagine the
things I would want to see, all the wonders of our modern world:
airplanes, TV, autos, artworks, architectural styles, trains,
computers, ocean liners, variety of clothes, furniture,
appliances, rocket launches, and the list was very long. I
sorted and resorted, changed time allotments, but as time
progressed over the next several months (yes, months) my
priorities changed radically from those I had started on the
list.
NOW, it was not the wonders of the modern world at all, but
the wonders of nature that headed the list and occupied the
majority of my 24 hours! Trees, grass, sky, mountains, oceans,
stars and planets, clouds, thunderstorms and rain, flowers and
shrubs, and just plain dirt were highest in the ratings, but
also were the animals, especially the small ones: rabbits,
squirrels, chipmunks, birds, dogs, cats, fish, and others
occupied a large chunk of time. Of course, the large animals
were included, but less time allotment. Which is more
interesting to watch, a lion or a cat? A giraffe or a chipmunk?
A bear or a rabbit?
And, of course, there had to be time allotments for friends,
and family. I had so little time left to see the man-made
wonders, there was little I could really see.
Everyone's list will differ, as ours did, also, but they were
astonishingly similar. But this beautiful world of ours is more
fascinating, more miraculous, and more interesting than all the
rest added together.
As I sit on my log home porch in the mountains and look out
over a valley, I view the small animals, feel the gentle breeze,
smell the clean pine-scented air, watching a sunset, I am
reminded of what Helen Keller might have meant in asking that
question. Perhaps she knew the wonders of nature would far
exceed those of man.
I encourage each one of you to pick up a pencil and paper and
start your list. You will be amazed at the resulting list, and
will learn more about yourself than you ever dreamed; and,
amazingly, your list will be similar to mine.
Enjoy this world. The minutes continue to slip by, one by
one. Never cease to stop, look, and smell the roses. It only
takes a second. They are here, just for us.
-- Robert G. Bridges, M.D.
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